A Brief Backstory - General psa to men...
Our Philosophy
- Manipulative Stalling: She treated the relationship like a game she couldn't afford to "lose," leading me on with talk of marriage and children while hiding her true intent to leave.
- Weaponized Labels: She repeatedly used autism as a slur against me; it was both factually wrong and a disrespectful insult to the community.
- Cultural Moc
- Manipulative Stalling: She treated the relationship like a game she couldn't afford to "lose," leading me on with talk of marriage and children while hiding her true intent to leave.
- Weaponized Labels: She repeatedly used autism as a slur against me; it was both factually wrong and a disrespectful insult to the community.
- Cultural Mockery: She constantly derided my background and "culture," violating the fundamental mutual respect required for a healthy partnership.
- Emotional Cruelty: After four years, her behavior revealed a level of disrespect and malice I had never experienced in a relationship before.
To be a caretaker for someone during a medical procedure—providing the literal safety and transport they need—only to be met with screaming and insults is a massive betrayal of the "care" part of that dynamic.
The Colonoscopy Experience
Backstory: I had a colonoscopy last Aprl. Jenn also wanted one so she went to the gastroentereilogy and got one. Alwys good to be checked. The problem arises with this: She allowed me to go out there for her colonocopy and drive her around because she wasn't able on the medication. Totally understandle and it would have been as friends as
Backstory: I had a colonoscopy last Aprl. Jenn also wanted one so she went to the gastroentereilogy and got one. Alwys good to be checked. The problem arises with this: She allowed me to go out there for her colonocopy and drive her around because she wasn't able on the medication. Totally understandle and it would have been as friends as well. Instead however, she increased the level of insults, yelling at me, describing my coworkers as "losers" (some of them might be but thats weird). Anyways. I drove here there and back made sure everything was safe and she legit yelled at the top of her lungs inside the moving vehicle.. I couldn't believe it. I went to bed when we got home. Not much else occurred that week. Jenn had her use of me. I got some decemt work done etc. Anyways here's saturday morning... she knows she is breaking up with me. What does she do? Asks me the name of our future dog and then proceeds to start screaming at me. I knew that was the last time I would see her again. For better or worse :(
She asked for engagement -- and then kept the ring
She promised we'd get through long distance...
- Three and a half years.
- Distance.
- Future plans.
- Named Kids
- Named Pets
- All while I sat naively waiting in Illinois (I also improved by career by over 40k)
- Saved $120k for the down payment for our house
- That’s not casual dating.
- That’s commitment.
- Yet Jenn ghosted IMMEDIATELY AFTER... So I find out she was faking her love, leaving me with no answers. I also have (ACTUAL not TV SHOW) OCD, and it doesn't leave my mind.
Everlove Academy Program Director
After she got this job, she immediately broke up with me. No longer needed as a fallback plan.... honestly be really really careful around this individual she is not trustworthy at all. And am I mad? Yes I am. Who wouldn't be?
